If you’re lusting after a spoken for woman and can’t stop thinking about her, you’ll need some help. Here’s how to handle this heartbreaking time.
Sometimes we meet someone and they take hold of our head. We can’t stop thinking about them no matter what and if this is you, but she’s taken, you’re probably going through a rough time. Thankfully, there are ways to get through it if you can’t stop thinking about her.
It’s not easy to accept the fact that she’s taken, but you just have to. You can’t be the guy who tries to wedge himself in the middle of their relationship. That’s not okay and she’ll most likely be turned off by you.
Why some people just stick in our minds
You’re probably wondering why you can’t stop thinking about her. To you, she may have even seemed like a pretty average woman but for some reason, you just can’t stop. You were attracted to her and now you can’t help but think of her all the time.
This is usually because she impressed you in some way. She did something out of the ordinary that made you take notice and your mind is now on her exclusively. You may not even know what she did.
Her hair could’ve been done a certain way, she could’ve said something, and she may have even just looked at you a certain way. No matter what, she got your attention and that’s why she’s in your head.
What to do when you can’t stop thinking about her
Unfortunately, no matter how much you like her, she’s taken. That means you can’t pursue her and instead, you have to try and get her out of your mind. Here are a few things you can do to forget her and live your life normally again.
#1 Stop stalking her social media. Yes. You need to stop. The more you see her, the more you’re going to be thinking about her. So just stop. Get rid of her social media or just stop looking her up if you’re not friends.
This might be really hard to do just because you have so much access to her photos and basically her life through social media. Be stronger than your desires. Use some self-control and help yourself out by not creeping on her.
Plus, you don’t want to accidentally like something and have her see you as a weird guy.